After a recent book talk, an audience member said this about a friend in a difficult situation: Every conversation revolved around the stress the friend was experiencing at work or the marital problems they were facing at home. “I want to be there for her,” my new acquaintance told me. “But I don't seem to be helping.”
Of course, providing emotional support should be central to any good relationship. And until recently, I thought patient listening was the best way to help the other person…
Source: www.newscientist.com